We are well into the
summer wedding season in North America. In
many cultures, weddings are associated with particular foods. In Mexico, a spicy lamb stew called birria is
the centerpiece of the traditional wedding meal. The
English serve fruitcake as their wedding dessert. In Italy, five sugar-covered almonds known as
Italian confetti or Jordan almonds are given to guests as favors. The almonds symbolize happiness,
longevity, health, prosperity, and fertility.
In my community, the traditional wedding dish is beef biryani. The meal is finished with ladoos (sweet
chickpea balls) and gathiya (savory deep fried chickpea dough). In addition to food, sherbet (a rose-flavored
milk drink) is traditionally served at weddings, engagements, and other celebratory events. This sweet beverage is thought to augur a
sweet marriage.
It is easy to make and keeps for several days (without the nut garnish).
6 cups whole milk
1/2 can (7oz)
sweetened condensed milk
2-3 teaspoons rose
water or a few drops of rose essence
2-3 teaspoons vanilla
extract
3-6 drops red food
color
finely chopped almonds
and pistachio for garnish
Directions
1.
In a large
pitcher combine the first five ingredients.
Use a long spoon to mix well.
Adjust rose, vanilla, and food color as desired.
2.
Pour into
6 to 10 glasses. Garnish with nuts and
serve.